People nowadays are so weird?!?

Was feeling weird for the below 2 past incidents:

Scenairo 1:

Cuurent - @ new co.

My colleague Girl A walked past me, i smell her body frangrance and sincerely felt that she was smelling nice. i praised her and say: " Hey, u smelled nice! i cannot stop smelling the nice smell.

I was waiting for her to say: "Really?" before i carry on to ask her what perfume u r wearing?"

But she did not say anything and give me a strange look which make me thinking in my heart and wonder what she actually thinks?? I was thinking is it i looked insincere or my expression does nt really show that im praising her?? She makes me think that she dosent seem to believe in what i say.

Scenairo 2:

Past - @ Ex-co.

On my way to wrk, i saw my colleague walking infront of me and i noticed that she's wearing quite pretty today. I told her and she reacted coldly. She also nv say anything and give me the impression that she thinks im not saying the truth.


Im totally quite puzzled that y these ppl react this way? Shldnt they feel happy when ppl praised them ? or they think im mocking at them? im really not and im sincere. Feel so sian with these kind of reactions that these ppl give me. What's wrong with them? or is it im the wrong one?



Scenairo 3:

Current - with my gd fren

I was having a short black hair with straight fringe. My gd fren commented that i look CUTE and look like a xiao wan zi ( a cartoon character). I was pretty happy with her compliment and even took it for real as i myself also felt that i looked ok in this new haircut.

Months later - after my hair grew alittle longer, i decided to dye my hair brown & get a new specs to make myself look trendier becos i felt that i look stupid in this black hair n black specs. (i heard my new colleague commented that i look like the "rabbit" - 1 of the singers participant in the superband (her style was those nerdy type) and i seeked my ex-colleague opinion and she also say i look abit stupid in this hairstyle. Hencce it realy confirmed that i looked stupid and nerdy with my black hair and black specs.

After i dyed, i was chatting with my gd fren and showed her my current hairstyle. I asked her :"Did i look better in this new dyed hair?" She say "yeah" and i asked her" i looked stupid right in my previous black hair?" she agreed and i straightforwardly asked her:" then y u nv tell me? and she replied:" i saw that u r quite satisfied in this hairstyle and so i nv say anything.

I was quite piss off with my fren not becos she nv tell me the truth for my previous black hair but is becos if she don feel that my hair is nice, y she wanted to praise me that i look cute? No wonder when she say i looked cute, she's always laughing at me. WTF!

im trying to link my scenairo 3 with scenairo 1 & 2. is it these ppls expreience what i expreience in scenairo 3, hence when i praised them, they thought i was not real?

Some1 please tell me!!